Owl Adam Diary

Is the social norm changed secretly? Or, I am changed unconsciously?

26-November-2018

Description:"People performing their jobs badly is nothing wrong, you complaining them is your fault!" How strange the thought is!


Story:
I dinned at a fast food shop in the afternoon, the staff was quite rude to throw a rice-noodle onto a tray, the soup in the bowl of rice-noodle spilled out, a napkin, chopsticks and spoon all got wet. The staff pretended to know nothing.

I told my friend this incident, my friend said that why did you dine at that fast food shop as you are unhappy with the staff? It sounds strange! I wouldn't have lunch at that shop if I know I will have a bad experience.  

I posted this incident on a Facebook group. Group members commonly said that don't go to that fast food shop anymore if you are unhappy with their service.

I felt strange to the feedback too. Why no anyone says "The fast food shop should improve its service?"

This incident makes me think of this speech, "You can emigrant to another country as you have many complains!" 

I don't have any complains indeed. I just feel strange.

People doing their jobs badly is nothing wrong, complaining their bad performance is your fault! It is really a strange thought to me.

Is the social norm changed secretly? Or, I am changed unconsciously?

I forgot which novelist wrote something like "You will not know the change of wind direction before it changed."

I am now feeling that I have been living here since I was born, but there's not the same place where I am familiar with.

1Q84 isn't barely a novel, the scene is happening to me.


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